aisya's progress

it's a dad thing

it's been 1 month, 2 weeks and 3 days, and life has taken a drastic turn.

i'm a son, father and husband.

i've a daughter.

i'm 26,

i do not have words to describe how i feel, but i do know that,

it will be a challenge to be like mak & dad, mama & ayah,

i'll get a taste of what its like to be in my parents' shoes,

and be more thankful, loving,

i'll love rynn more, be more understanding and thoughtful,

and all this because,

my daughter aisya,

a plethora of hope, dreams and wonder.

kisah "pantang"

hari ni dah masuk 37 hari berpantang.. cerita pasal pantang nih, sblm bersalin i decided to buy set bersalin emmy 60 days by sendayu tinggi.. fuh bnyk ubat die kasik dlm 1 set tuh n harganye rm480 if i'm not mistaken.. tp promoter kat toko jamu tu kata utk 1st baby tak digalakkan amik set ni sbb terlampau panas.. takut efek baby hmm.. survey punye survey, last2 amik set leesa formula..

biaselah, org yg tak suke makan ubat mcm saya akan memilih set yg paling mudah @ tak leceh dan ubatnye tak brape bnyk.. agak mudah, ade 2 je ubat - pil haruan n pil prawan.. pil haruan tu tau la utk sembuh luka, tp pil prawan?? hurmm tak paham sgt fungsinye.. selain dr tu ade 'tungku' yg moden - dah tak yah la kita nak pakai tungku batu atau besi yg berat gile tu lg.. ade bengkung utk tujuan men'slim'kan perut dan ade ginger cream utk tujuan buang angin dlm badan.. semua benda dlm set ni digunakan sepenuhnye sbb tak remeh..

sejak mama n ayah balik haji, diorang ambik alih tugas jaga saya dlm pantang, dan semalam mamaku dah beli satu lg set bersalin dr indon sbb die sgt tak puas hati dgn set leesa formula yg simple tuh!! namenye 'jamu selapan' by mustika ratu.. waduh2, gawat nih.. sbb set ini mengandungi;

• galian parem wangi
• pulih balung sumsum
• pilis wangi
• tapel raket mustika sejati
• parem segar sumyah
• bubuk bancar air susu

*sila rujuk kamus BM-INDON.. heh

pening???!! hmm saya yg nak kena makan n guna benda2 ni lg pening!! nama benda2 die je dah tak paham kan?? tp ni la akar2 kayu, rempah2, jamu2 dan herba2 yg dicampur2.. igtkan mama ni 'mama moden' yg tak brape kisah sgt pasal pantang larang nih.. bila tanya pada dia, jawapannye "mmg mama moden tp benda ni tak boleh buat main2 sbb bdn org perempuan ni ade bnyk benda nak jaga.. kalau kamu nak sihat, kuat dan badan cantik, mesti ikut pantang, jaga makan dan habiskan jamu2 tu!!" nasib baikla skrg dah takde jamu yg kena bancuh pastu minum tu! yg ade kena bancuh pun fungsinye hanya utk sapu pd bdn atau perut..

igtkan dah hujung2 pantang ni bleh la nak rilex2.. tak jugak.. demi mama, ridz and utk diri sendiri, akan ku gagahkan jugak buat semua nih.. sabar, sabar..

our lil munchkin is one month old!

Yeah! papa ridz and mama rynn wishes lil' aisya a happy first-montha-birthday!

Here are some tidbits to share:

• ridz is still confused (he refers to himself as ayah sometimes papa to aisya) and is considering to add dad or daddy to the list.
• mama rynn has proven to be a top notch supermom, attending 2 weddings and a trip back to ipoh even before 44 days of berpantang ain't yet over. hmmm...
• from our observation aisya's favourite menu consists of milk, milk, milk and more milk.
• she's like to stretch up to an hour before she actually opens her eyes, and
• aisya mysara likes to frown (berkerut like her mama) a lot, as though there a lot of stuff to think about.

A baby will make love stronger,
days shorter,
nights longer,
bankroll smaller,
home happier,
clothes shabbier,
the past forgotten,
and the future worth living for

Day 20

baby aisya says hi to opah!

mama's voice

salam singgah utk semua..

it has been a while since my last post in this blog.. bukan semua org ade bakat nak menulis ni.. tu la sbb fikir panjang dulu sblm nak tulis ape2 kat blog nih! sesetengah tulisan (dlm blog kengkawan) bile baca cerita2 kamu semua seolah2 ade 'suara' yg menjadikan cerita2 tu best.. ntahla.. ye kut??!!

ape2 pun, ade byk kisah yg nak dikongsi.. antaranya;

1. i dah pun bergelar 'mama' to my gorgous lil' princess - aisya mysara
2. pengalaman bersalin?? hmm indah, subhanallah.. ya, mmg sakit esp masa contraction, tp tempoh masa baby nak kuar cuma dlm 10 min - alhamdulilah (mungkin berkat doa mama ngan ayah kat mekah)
3. oh ye, 22/11/08 my beloved mama n ayah pergi menunaikan haji.. dan skrg kami di rumah membilang hari smpai mereka balik 1/1/2009 (10 days to go)
4. and yup, i harungi detik2 nak bersalin without my parents di sisi - sedih + risau sbb mama takde nak jaga masa pantang; happy + syukur jugak sbb hasrat mama n ayah nak buat haji dah tercapai..
5. skrg sehingga 20 hari lagi i mesti harungi tempoh 'berpantang' dgn betul.. huhu. dari fist day bersalin sampai 21/12/08 - i dibawah jagaan mak ridz.. tq soo much mak sbb sudi tinggalkan KLUANG STATION utk jaga menantu yg degil mcm ni.. skrg i dah kuat sket utk jaga diri sendiri and baby aisya atas bantuan ana (cousin) and ridz the 'papa'..
6. happy to let y'all know that ridz ada menemani sepanjang tempoh delivery tu berlaku.. yes, dia tekad utk tgk process tu dari mula sampai selesai.. alhamdulilah, die tak pengsan, tak muntah.. mm BRAVO, dear!! tq to u
   

utk kawan2 yg dah dtg visit saya n baby aisya, terima kasih bnyk2 sbb sudi luangkan masa, utk hadiah2 yg comel2 dan utk doa2 kalian!! tq, tq again..

she's here!

Alhamdulillah, she's finally here! Our little Aisya Mysara was born on 5th Dec 2008, at 8.56 a.m. @ 3.5kg. i've never been happier, and i have so much to tell, but we are currently very2 bz attending to aisya and belum ada masa to really compose the joyous experience. here's a glimpse of our lil angel!

nad's wedding

shes rynn's colleague and we attended her wedding last saturday.

brief hiatus

we've not updated the blog quite a while, since which many things have passed.

• we've had a false alarm, funny in the sense when we arrived, the attendent had asked whether "Puan ni sakit perut ke sakit nak beranak?" to which the reply was "tak tahu". Secondly, "Puan ada rasa contractions tak?" which was replied "tak tahulah contractions to macam mana." Anyway it was a good learning experience, i've learnt that i now need to be prepared at all times, and both of us pun dah attend an antenatal class, so we are technically in the know-how (sort of) .

• We've moved in the the new house! This would be the third week, definitely interesting surviving on our four feet!

• We've had elia & sis, zack & shida over and we would say it's interesting to be the host =]

• what else? i dunno we'll need to put that in the next post, toodlez!